Meet Your Coach
About me:
Lise at a glance
- Queer
- Disabled & medically complex (hEDS, MCAS, POTS, CALR-mutated ET, to name a few)
- Neurodivergent (Autistic & ADHD)
- Avid reader
- Serial craft hobbyist
- Tabletop gamer
- Perpetual idea machine
- Easily distracted by shiny things
- Lifelong learner
- Lover of all critters, big and small
- Hopelessly irreverent
- Delighted by absurdity
My goal:
Helping You Find Peace in Pleasure
It is my firm belief that humans, on a base level, deserve access to pleasure. Our bodies give us so many ways to feel good, whether it's coming home and changing into that perfectly cozy sweatshirt that fits just right, or indulging in that one food that makes you do a happy dance, or receiving the kind of touch that lights you up... or melts you into a puddle. Sex is literally the reason our species continues; it's one of the most natural things in the world.
What could our world look like if we embraced pleasure in a responsible, healthy way instead of trying to shame ourselves out of wanting it? We know sexual shame doesn't keep people safer. It just makes us sneakier. Let's ditch the shame, ask hard questions, and get genuine with one another.
I'm not for everyone, and that's ok:
Client Compatibility
It is incredibly important to me for my coaching practice to be as radically, deliberately inclusive as possible, while simultaneously offering a safe environment for the vulnerable moments that come with intimacy coaching.
What this means: Spellbound welcomes every shape of human who is willing to leave judgement and hate at the door. We are sex-and body-positive space that prioritizes consent and boundaries. We don't yuck people's yum, or tolerate racism, xenophobia, homophobia, transphobia, etc. We assume competence in the face of ableism, and we don't support eugenics or genocide. That said, we understand that everyone's story is different. You don't have to be free of bias to walk through the door (spoiler: none of us are) but you do have to be willing to entertain challenges to biases and show up to discussions in good faith. We will refuse service to persons contributing to an unsafe environment.
What I Offer:
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Education
- Techniques
- Product & Equipment Knowledge
- Resources- catered to your specific Needs
- Customized Referrals & Recommendations- providers, businesses, programs, etc.
- Anatomy
- Communication
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Topics Often Covered In Session
- Kink
- Ethical non-monogamy & alternative relationship structures
- Disability & neurodivergence
- Desire differences
- Communication, boundaries, & consent
- Societal issues
- Gender/Orientation
- Consumer safety- Regulation, product design, and how to stay safer while shopping
- Body positivity/neutrality movement, self-esteem
- Whatever clients need to know!
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Other Professional Services
Disability Consultation- Personal: Discussion of individual challenges, collaborative problem solving, connection to resources & providers.
Disability Consultation- Professional: Assessment of spaces and practices through the lens of the disabled experience, collaborative problem solving to increase access for your clients/customers/patients.
Product Consultation: Assess existing or proposed products/product lines for accessibility and inclusivity. Collaborate on potential design improvements and/or marketing changes to broaden customer base.
Speaking Engagements: Small workshops, presentations, vendor events, lunch and learn format for professionals, etc.
Writing Collaboration: Blog posts, articles, etc.
Thinking outside the box is what I do best. Have other ideas for me? Contact me here!
